Reread Hans Christian Andersen's "The Little Mermaid". And no, this does not indicate my second childhood.
The full story's here. This is becoming my favourite fairy tale. Beautiful lines there- "mermaids have no tears, and therefore they suffer more". The pathos in this sentence really got me. Mermaids aside, its awful when you cant find an outlet for pain through tears. Well, not that its happened to me, being a closet crybaby. My sister described giving birth as "pain beyond tears". I once went to a funeral where the deceased's husband kept patting the body of his dead wife, his body racked occasionally by dry sobs that refused to give vent to tears. I cant imagine greater pain-physical or emotional- than those. Ariel's story, where she loses the love of her life and gains a soul in the process made me reinforce that old cliche, "Its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all". Love might hurt like a b!t$h, but its always worth it.
The Lit student in me remembers the feminist dictionary definition of fairy tales as a "harmful cross-cultural educative story told to unsuspecting children that shows women as passive, opportunistic or cruel" (Cheris, 149) where passivity is praised and "powerful female figures ... were either deprived of (verbal) power or their power was transformed into the wickedness of witchcraft" (Bottigheimer, 149). Yeowtch!
Rewatched Nirvana's 1993 MTV Unplugged performance. It was thaaat long ago. Swooned all over again. Kurt Cobain is one good looking dude, despite or maybe, because of that greasy unkempt dirty blond hair, disheveled clothes and moody attitude. Laughed at Dave Grohl's angsty grunge avatar :D
The band and MTV originally had differences of opinions about the song line-up because the band didnt want it to be a rock show where the band would play their hits albeit with acoustic guitars. They preferred working with a few of their lesser known songs and covers and also preferred cameo appearances by a little known band, The Meat Puppets, rather than some famous name. They went with their instinct and, IMHO, went on to present the best ever Unplugged performance in history. The grungemeister didn't sell out to MTV execs and in the process, left a musical legacy that thrilled with its creative promise, a promise all the more haunting because it remained unfulfilled.
Re-listened to U2's "One" after watching a Glee episode in which they covered the song. This song is one of my all-time faves, whether its the U2 single or the one that featured Mary J. Blige or the brief appearance in Lighthouse Family's "Free/One" or the Glee cover. Other covers I havent heard include those by Johny Cash, REM, Pearl Jam, among others. The inception of the song itself is awesome. The band nearly disbanded because of musical conflicts when The Edge came up with a chord progression that inspired the group to improvise the song and everything fell into place again. The Edge describes the moment as one that defines why you're in a band.
Though the song is about romantic relationships, it has been reinterpreted in a variety of ways, a major indicator of great writing (or lyricism, in this case). Often used as a theme song to promote human rights or social causes, the song advocates getting together not because of some spiritual belief that we are one. In fact, it says we are not the same, but we have to come together because we need to to survive. Bono suggested that "the line "we get to carry each other" introduces "grace" to the song and that the wording "get to" (instead of "got to") is essential, as it suggests that it is a privilege to help one another, not an obligation".
Im into rehashes these days. I need to find me newer things to swoon over but then again, these oldies are classics and in no way trashable.
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comtemplation plus songs???hmmmm...U will rot in your room me dear. Go out and have fun, the whole 2nd lane is beckoning you...go ku go! And if you need a shaking partner Im right here :P You're sounding moody yaar! Be yourself!
The grunge angst was a bit before my time, the emo anguish after. Im channelling both at the same time, hence the moodiness. Its become the new "me" :D
I guess you could say Im emotionally and economically drained right now. But shopping- definitely in the works.
U2's 'One' ... great great great and great.. the bestest most beautiful song ever ( ka ngaihdan ve mai mai :))
Awi niminah youtube ah disney movies spoof 'adult' rawng kai in kan ngaihthla nasa ltk a, ka rawn hawng a the little mermaid ka rawn hmu chiah a ka rilru ah 'porn' a rawn lang nghal thruai ka inthiam lo top :P Mahse hei lo enchhin ve teh, a tawp lam a a 'chant' kha ka nuih za bawn http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OuioD9yIiM4&feature=related
Kurt hi chu keipawh ka en apiangin duhna hian min bawh khat haha
Thats quite a lot of pain and angst in your post. Its as if you have selected only the dark emotional ones from the sands of time and rehashed them on this post. :)
And lolz at the feminist interpretation of fairy tales. These people, I tell you... sawi leh lo mai ang. *hides*
And speaking of covers, I don't think anyone can beat NgTv's version. :D
@ Dean: Right on!
@Jeru: hets, mi emo, contemplative lai laiin tikhan tinge i rawn tih!!! Ka load thei rih looo, ka internet muang lutuk a, will do so later. Heh, Kurtie baby-a chungchang i rawn sawi dan pawh kha a dik zan looo :D :D
@Illue: Am I? That wasnt my intention. I guess it depends on your mood when u read the post. Apart from Cobain, I thought I was relatively un-angsty.
And NGTV....unsurpassable! :)
And on behalf of everyone including those who are yet to find out through this comment, Congratulations on thickening your income! RGNF chu rolls of gandhi ni mai, tam teh mai nia...!Spend it wisely heheh!You single, rich, gutsy, contented, spunky, sassy, mysterious gal lolzzz im tempted to hit backspace...lolzz and more lolzzz
hmmm, ngati chiam2 ta nge aaa? Min tlawn suh, i income tam dawn nen2, you gazetted officer you :D
Min describe na khu pakhatmah ala diklo zui, hah :D
As a Literature student myself I'm reminded of two feminist theorists, Sandra M. Gilbert and Susan Gubar, who have said in their essay “The Madwoman in the Attic” that there is a trend that places women characters into one of two stereotypes: either the “passive angel” or the “active monster”. The “angel in the house” image is one of a domesticated woman whose ultimate aim was to please their male spouses. Perhaps the "madwoman in the attic" is every woman who tries to break free from the prison that society has placed her in. Those who questions the norms of their society are often considered "mad" by the critics.
'Women are not inherently passive or peaceful. We're not inherently anything but human.' ~Robin Morgan
Dont like Nirvana too much. But U2's 'One' makes me sit very still every time I hear it. Love the Glee version of it. :)
lit student kan ni ve lo bawk a :D normal fiction novels sawi ta daih i la...Sheldon ka duh em em na chhan "female powerful figure" :D
Kurt Kobain hi chu ...huizzz...ka chil a put...ka sawi zawm thei lo :D
and One...i love love love love this song....the lyrics, the tune...everything...tupawhin sa se a nalh thei zel mai...
congrats on the salary hike
Feminist criticism sawi takah chuan... I believe Showalter's Gynocriticism has revolutionized and has changed to a certain extent not just women's writing per se but also the portrayal of women characters in general. The 'Female' stage I believe is operating in its fullest as one hardly encounters the stereotipycal 'angel' or 'man woman in the attic' of the Victorian era..'cept for maybe in M&Bs.. hehe.
@ Eve: Oh Gawd, the angel/whore dichotomy! But then again, its completely true. In our Mizo folktales too, Women are usually cast in the roles of hapless victims or wicked stepmothers and witches.
@Virgo: Thank you :)) Nia, Sidney-a hi chuan a hmeichhia te hi a chhuah powerful thei tawp. Rage of Angels ka chhiar hmasakber khan ka vei rei raapppthlak, a tawpdan kha ka duhthu a samlo lutuka, mahse khatia a han tawp kha a ti ngaihnawmtu a ni leh zel bawk sia, heh.
@Dean: M&B' women- virginal, domestic, innocent and youngish. The men- sardonic, rich, womaniser, arrogant :D
Showalter has indeed helped to open up a whole new way of looking at women's lit. As much as I resent the portrayal of women in Vic times, i feel suffocated when I read male-bashing, ultra feminist novels. The Female phase is defly refreshing- women as human, and not as victims or dominatrixes :D
Enjoyed this one:)
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